My sisters and I were having the best conversation today about unresolved hurts and how they show up on the outside in the harshest and sharpest---sometimes uncomplimentary--ways. We agreed that unresolved issues are destructive to the person and those witnessing the presenting behavior. One powerful sister said: "Just because the issue is unresolved for them does not make it unresolved for you." Amen right! Yes, we have to be careful not to be caught up or vexed by someone e